The Aeronautical Information Manual (AIM) is the FAA's official guide to the National Airspace System. Updated annually, it is the authoritative source for how pilots and air traffic controllers communicate, what the rules of the airspace are, and how the entire system of aviation in the United States functions.
Unlike the handbooks that teach you to fly, the AIM teaches you to operate in the system. It covers every type of airspace, every ATC facility, every type of radio call, every navigation aid, every airport sign and marking, and every procedure you will encounter as a pilot.
Every certificated pilot should own and regularly refer to the AIM. It is updated annually and pilots are expected to keep up with changes. It is especially critical for instrument-rated pilots and anyone flying in controlled airspace. The pilot-controller glossary alone is worth the read — understanding exactly what ATC means when they say something is essential for safe, professional operations.